I’ve never been to a wedding... Now I’m planning my own! Help me?

Hey everyone! Just like the title says, I’ve never been to a wedding. Just never had the opportunity. Now, though, I’m trying to plan one for myself. Are there any books or anything that can help me understand some of the “norms”? I’m also massively socially anxious, so if you know of anything that will help me understand the thoughts of our guests and help me guide my own?My fiancé proposed to me in November and we’re planning for July 2021. It will be a gay wedding (a first for nearly all of our guests) so I know I don’t have to fit into any molds, but I’d still really love some direction. Thanks! via /r/weddingplanning https://ift.tt/3phPSTH