Hi all,Over the weekend I (26F) asked my future step daughter (17F) to be my bridesmaid in the presence of my FH (34M) and his mom. Everyone was excited and talking about details… long story short, FSD was looking at our wedding website and saw something about the bachelorette party that shouldn’t have been public info. She asked a casual question about it and FMIL gets all excited and tells FSD she’s invited to the bachelorette party. Although I never articulated this, mostly due to being in the earlier stages of planning, I did not intend to invite FSD or FMIL.For some background info: the bach is going to be in Mexico at an (expensive) all-inclusive resort, we definitely plan on drinking, playing x-rated games, talking about FH, the whole stereotypical shebang. Additionally, FSD is on the quiet side, my friends range in age up to 33, and I genuinely don’t think she would have a fun time.I’m planning on having a fun, casual dinner or something before the official bach so FSD, FMIL, and my mom feel included. Is there any polite way to clarify to FSD and more importantly FMIL that the Mexico leg of the bach will be my close girlfriends only?Thank you!Edit: changed FDIL to FSD (my bad) via /r/weddingplanning https://ift.tt/3wzWHTx
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