
I’m looking for advice to deal with massive decision fatigue through the wedding planning process… and also just needed to vent as I’m sure others feel similar…Decisions are NOT my strong suit and never have been- and it’s on top of perfectionism tendencies! I’m in a full time job that demands decisions often and I’m basically planning a wedding on my own on top of everyday life stuff like figuring out what we’re doing for the holidays. My partner doesn’t care much about the wedding details (he would have been just as happy, if not happier going to a court house) so when I ask his opinion, I often get “whatever you want” or “both are fine” or “I don’t care”. And then my mother who has been the biggest help with it all so far also has major decision making issues (guess where I learned it! Lol) so sometimes she helps but sometimes she’s makes it worse (although I know she means well).I’m just getting so burnt out with all these decisions and it’s bleeding into the rest of my life and I don’t know what to do. I feel like time is running out on a lot of the decisions too. I know I just need to make them and be done with it and not care so much… but I’m struggling 😞So ready for the day to come and this process to be behind me. via /r/weddingplanning https://ift.tt/3nGWWts
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